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Asian Dating Blog

When it comes to Asian dating & relationships, we all have different experiences and opinions. Being at the forefront of the dating world, I meet and interact with single Asian professionals daily. I would like to share some insights, experiences and opinions, which I hope you find interesting.

It would also be great to get your thoughts. Please feel free to post your comments, you can do so anonymously, should you so wish. And if you do have a dating dilemma, which you would like us to discuss on this forum (again this can be done anonymously), please feel free to email us, or use our feedback form.

Happy reading!

Alpa Saujani  
(Managing Director of Tantric Club)

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I wonder how many great relationships are sacrificed because of antiquated views and attitudes towards women's age and their fertility levels. Let me elaborate with an example that a member, recently shared. Nina, 40 met Rakesh, 38 on Tinder. They went on a couple of dates and things seem to be going swimmingly well. Acutely aware of many Asian men's ageism mentality, on their third date, Nina decided to broach the subject about their age difference. Rakesh admitted that for the past...


Dating should be fun and exciting. The thrill of getting to know someone that you find attractive ought to be an exhilarating experience, otherwise why bother? Whilst we're all busy people, if not somewhat egotistical and complacent at times, this results in picking up bad dating habits. However, if you're in the market to find a partner, here are 10 dating habits that you need to avoid:Being stuck in the virtual world - With so much of our lives happening...


Einstein once said: "Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results...”I'm a big advocate of if you want a different result from the one that you have been getting, you have to try something different, otherwise you'll continue to get the same results that you always have. With this in mind, what are you planning on doing differently to find love in 2016? To get...


You've been on a couple of great dates, there's chemistry, banter and regular communication. Things are going well but then out of the blue the calls stop and texts start to tail off. When there is some communication there is no further mention of another date. You call, or text and there is no reply for days. When you finally receive a message, you read it and think, "well what am I suppose to infer from that, are they interested or not?"At some point...

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