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Asian Dating Blog

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When it comes to Asian dating & relationships, we all have different experiences and opinions. Being at the forefront of the dating world, I meet and interact with single Asian professionals daily. I would like to share some insights, experiences and opinions, which I hope you find interesting.

It would also be great to get your thoughts. Please feel free to post your comments, you can do so anonymously, should you so wish. And if you do have a dating dilemma, which you would like us to discuss on this forum (again this can be done anonymously), please feel free to email us, or use our feedback form.

Happy reading!

Alpa Saujani  
(Managing Director of Tantric Club)
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Whether you've been single for a while, or you're a serial dater the chances are that at some point you've been called 'picky, fussy' or berated for having 'high standards'. In the cold light of day how true is this? Are you really fussy and picky, or do you simply believe that it really means that you know what you want and are not prepared to settle for anything less? Let's assume that it's the latter....

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As we start to approach the end of a year, it's always a good time to take stock and see if things could be improved in the coming year, including your love life. Whilst no one likes to be criticised, or think of them self in a negative manner, the reality is that there are many people who are 'hard to date'. These people blame their lack of success on everything under the sun but fail to reflect and see if they could actually be doing something that is off...

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I remember growing up hearing the aunties and uncles gossiping and frowning upon couples who got divorced. Unashamedly they would cast aspersions about these people and avoid them at social functions, fearing outcast by association. Whilst things are not as bad as they used to be, divorce is still somewhat stigmatised in the Asian community. Last year I attended a wedding where I knew the groom's sister was divorced after a short marriage. However, her family tried to...

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Expectation defined: A strong belief that something will happen or be the case. In life we all have general expectations, we expect day to follow night, our car to take us from A to B and water to flow when we run the tap. But when it comes to dating and expectations, it’s often a completely different ball game, which if you’re not mindful can leave you on a bumpy emotional rollercoaster....

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How long do you think it would take you to decide whether you wanted to marry someone? I recently met a couple Thiru, 29 and Divya 27 who decided to get married within 10 minutes of meeting, yes that’s right 10 minutes! They certainly are more courageous than me. It takes me a lot longer than that to figure out which outfit to wear in the morning. Lo and behold they are very happy & very much in love. It’s a lovely story, which I would like to share with...

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