Stashing - How To Avoid It by James Preece
If you're unsure what the term "stashing" means, it's exactly what it sounds like. In the world of Asian dating, it refers to someone keeping you an almost secret. You're dating someone, but it feels a little off. You haven't met any family members or friends. You've never been to an office party or met co-workers. You don't go to places where you're likely to run into anyone mentioned above. Every time you go out, it seems to be out of the way or weird hours. Generally, this means you're being stashed. This happens when an individual isn't sure about their relationship with you. Because of this, they avoid introducing you to anyone important. They will keep you around just in case they get lonely, or something falls through with someone else. You don't necessarily have to be dating either! You can just be friends with a chance of interest to get stashed away as a potential romance. It's a pretty common thing in the new world...

Do You Take Thee For Love Or For Fertility? By Alpa Saujani
I wonder how many great relationships are sacrificed because of antiquated views and attitudes towards women's age and their fertility levels. Let me elaborate with an example that a member, recently shared. Nina, 40 met Rakesh, 38 on Tinder. They went on a couple of dates and things seem to be going swimmingly well. Acutely aware of many Asian men's ageism mentality, on their third date, Nina decided to broach the subject about their age difference. Rakesh admitted that for the past two weeks he had been trying to work out whether this was an issue for him, or not. It was not the response that Nina was expecting as he knew her age before he asked her out (more than once!). Whilst Rakesh did not come right out and say it, Nina knew what he was really thinking – is this woman going to be able to give me children? This begs the question that whilst the world we live in today has advanced significantly, why haven't some peoples' mindsets? Everything evolves and...